Within each of us exists a power struggle: a dynamic between us, as spiritual beings (souls), and our mind. The mind serves as the intermediary link between our spiritual essence and our physical existence, connecting the soul to the body. However, this link often acts independently, as if it were a being with its own desires and motivations.

The mind, shaped by its impressions, often distorts our intentions and actions. This situation can be likened to a business partnership where the other partner’s interests are significantly different from, or even opposed to, our own. Yet, the partnership is inextricable. In such a scenario, we must always stay vigilant to ensure that our interests are protected, lest our partner makes decisions that jeopardize or ruin us.

Similarly, in our relationship with the mind, things are constantly happening—both externally in the world and internally within us. If we remain inattentive or distracted, our mind will act on our behalf without consulting us. Unfortunately, the liability for such actions falls entirely upon us, not the mind.

The responsibility lies with us

The Bhagavad Gita (6.5) cautions that we must elevate ourselves through our mind, or we will degrade ourselves by allowing the mind to dictate our actions. This means we must be the responsible partner in this inescapable relationship. To do so, we need to:

  • Stay conscious of both external events and internal thoughts.
  • Actively choose responses that align with our long-term interests and well-thought-out intentions.
  • Avoid capitulating to the mind’s impulses; instead, negotiate compromises that safeguard our core interests while accommodating the mind where necessary.

Through mindful awareness and thoughtful engagement, we can gradually improve our relationship with our mind. Over time, this will lead to an alignment between the mind’s interests and our own, transforming the mind from an adversary into a friend.

Summary

  • We are in an inextricable partnership with our mind, whose interests often conflict with our own.
  • If we are inattentive, the mind will act on our behalf, but for its interests—not ours—leaving us liable for the consequences.
  • By staying mindful and negotiating with the mind where necessary, we can protect our key interests and gradually align the mind’s interests with our own, achieving inner harmony.

Think it over

  • Reflect on an action that occurred through you without your conscious awareness. How were you held liable for it?
  • Identify three areas where your mind’s interests conflict with your own. Plan how you can remain mindful while dealing with those areas.
  • Note three areas where your mind’s attachments are strong, requiring negotiation. Plan terms that protect your key interests while accommodating the mind.

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06.05 One must deliver himself with the help of his mind, and not degrade himself. The mind is the friend of the conditioned soul, and his enemy as well.