To find our purpose in life, focus not just on what our calling is but also on what we are calling

We all aspire to live a meaningful life, and a key source of meaning is having a purpose. When we have a strong sense of purpose, we can confidently and consistently navigate life’s challenges. In the search for purpose, we often begin by asking, “What is my calling?”

To answer this, we might explore our natural interests, the issues in the world that deeply concern us, or the activities that bring us intrinsic satisfaction—those pursuits where we feel wholly absorbed. These factors—our interests, engagement with specific issues, and absorption in fulfilling activities—can serve as valuable pointers to our calling. However, one more vital factor deserves attention: what we are calling.

This phrase doesn’t refer to a literal vocal or physical calling. Instead, it highlights the kinds of desires and emotions we habitually cultivate within ourselves. These inner tendencies act as subtle signals we send into the universe. Over time, our dispositions shape our gravitation toward corresponding roles or positions in life.

For instance, if we are plagued by fears and constantly think, “I will never find my calling,” those very fears might predispose us to situations of greater insecurity. While there may be mystical dimensions to how our thoughts attract corresponding realities, psychological explanations also provide clarity. The Bhagavad-gita explains that the mind is a subtle but real entity, and the thoughts within it constitute a subtle level of reality. Just as physical symptoms of ill health often reflect mental stress, the thoughts we dwell on internally can manifest externally.

The Bhagavad-gita (18.14) emphasizes that endeavor is one of the key components determining the manifestation of results. This endeavor isn’t limited to physical effort; it includes the mental alignment and attitude that shape our ability to perform tasks effectively. If we approach our search for purpose with curiosity instead of uncertainty or insecurity, we cultivate a positive mental disposition. This positivity generates energy, fostering a constructive mindset that ultimately translates into tangible actions and outcomes.

Summary:

  • Discover your calling by exploring your interests, abilities, and the external challenges that resonate with you, while also considering the emotional disposition you habitually cultivate.
  • Understand that what you are calling—your inner attitudes and emotions—can significantly contribute to the success or failure of your endeavors to find your calling.
  • Replace insecurity and uncertainty with curiosity, infusing your mental world with positive energy that can eventually manifest in meaningful actions and results.

Think it over:

  • What activities or issues can you focus on to discover your calling and purpose?
  • Reflect on your emotional tendencies. What do you notice about your habitual inner states, and how do they influence your actions?
  • How can you bring the positivity of curiosity into your search for purpose, replacing the negativity of insecurity or uncertainty?

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18.14 The place of action [the body], the performer, the various senses, the many different kinds of endeavor, and ultimately the Supersoul – these are the five factors of action.