We all have various aspirations, and we often try to increase our determination to pursue our aspirations. However, when our aspiration is misguided, determination alone cannot compensate for the lack of direction. For instance, digging vigorously for gold in a place where none exists will only result in exhaustion, not success. Similarly, pursuing material pleasures—such as physical indulgence or social glamor—may initially seem fulfilling but often end in disappointment. The Bhagavad-Gita (18.38) cautions against such pursuits, describing them as pleasures that begin like nectar but end like poison.

A wiser aspiration involves seeking something more enduring, real, and valuable. The Bhagavad-Gita (15.7) reminds us that our true nature is as parts of God, meant for seva (service). This service, when done in connection with Krishna, offers profound and sustainable happiness.

The role of connection and contribution

True fulfillment arises not from what we get but from what we give. When we focus on connecting with Krishna through devotion and contributing to the world with our unique gifts, we experience growth, clarity, and confidence. This purpose—centered on connection and contribution—does not depend on external factors or outcomes. The act itself becomes its own reward, providing value and meaning to our existence.

Unlike the fleeting pleasures of material indulgence, which are often beyond our control, the pursuit of service and connection is always accessible. This approach transforms our motivation into a steady force, anchored in a deeper purpose.

Summary:

  • Raising determination without examining aspiration can lead to wasted effort, like digging for gold where none exists.
  • Pursuing pleasure as the sole motivation can make life feel pointless when pleasure becomes unavailable.
  • Seeking service through connection and contribution provides meaning and fulfillment, independent of results or external circumstances.

Think it over:

  • Have you ever realized the dangers of raising your determination without examining your aspiration?
  • Has the exclusive pursuit of pleasure ever left you feeling that life is pointless?
  • Have you found meaning and fulfillment through service, even when significant results were absent?

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18.38 That happiness which is derived from contact of the senses with their objects and which appears like nectar at first but poison at the end is said to be of the nature of passion.